MASCULINE CONFIDENCE | Dating Sex & Relationship Advice for Men | Masculinity Attitude & Seduction

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As men we need to learn the path of masculine confidence. We need to learn to carve our masculinity and masculine attitude in a specific process. Here we breakdown 4 steps you’re going to go through to develop a positive male attitude. This moves into dating, sex, seduction as well as anything that truly challenges us. Don’t mindfuck yourself, build self-inquiry

Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach living in Austin Texas.
He’s a dad a BJJ enthusiast and works with men in specifically in dating, sex, relationships as well as addiction and recovery.

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01:59
2 TYPES OF MEN
& we need to start at
different places for both men.

Man 1 – Just starting out, little to no
point of reference or confidence in
a certain area of his life
Confidence and success in
one area of life seems like a
myth and a long road
or impossible for us.

Man 2 – Already getting success,
but wants to refine it.
This man speaks of confidence
in a completely different context.

03:15
WHAT IS
CONFIDENCE?

In order to find the road to
confidence we need to know
what exactly confidence is.

03:41
CONFIDENCE
The ability to be yourself in
all situations.

Meaning that if you’re getting
more money, adoration,
status or attention
or you’re getting none of those
things and starved for them
you’re still able to be you.

We often confuse confidence
with the image of it. The ‘win’
or the ‘man that is strong’
However this is not confidence
These are specific examples
of the results of confidence

05:24
THE ROAD TO
CONFIDENCE
For a man who doesn’t yet
have success in this area of
his life.
STEP 1 – GET WINS

05:38
GETTING THE WINS
Means going after exactly what you
perceive confidence to be. It is not that,
but you need to go for it and gain at
minimum competency in that.

If that is business – get the sales
If that is dating – get the dates
If that is addiction
recovery – get 30 days clean
Get the goal and do whatever you
can to get that.

Once you gain competency
with that you can move on.
You may not win, you may
not get what you perceive as
success. That is fine, get on
that road of attempting it.

07:59
STEP 2
FAITH IN
THE PROCESS
The road to success and true
confidence is going to have
wins and loses.
We don’t need to get dramatic
about loss or misinterpret it as
a personal attack.

When we experience confusion,
stagnancy, loss or set backs
we aren’t as emotionally affected
by them as in the past.

08:45
THE OPPOSITE
OF FEAR IS FAITH
What this means is most of
our fear has to do with our
fear of the outcome.
If we build more faith
in our process then fear
no longer shapes our
mindset.

09:18
STEP 3
SELF-AWARENESS
& SELF-ACCEPTANCE
This can be the hardest and most
elusive component to the puzzle.
It is also avoided by most people and
why success does not maintain.
It must integrate into who you are.

The world is full of dreamers
who never succeeded, all
because they saw success
as an image or mask to run
from who they are.

12:36
EXCESS & SCARCITY
Bring out the deep defects within
someone. This is why one reason why
(of many) success is a gift,
it exposes things we wouldn’t
normally see.

However this is truly why scarcity,
trauma and pain is a gift because
it directly shows us defects
we would never see.

14:13
STEP 4
BUILDING A NORMAL
LIFESTYLE
The path to maintaining success
is different than the path that
got us success,
and the key factor is it is normal
and not a big deal anymore.

We may have needed to push our
comfort zones and make huge
changes in our lives to get
success, but to maintain it we
cannot keep this mentality.
You can continue to push,
but just in new areas of your life.

16:06
VALUE YOUR
COMMUNITY
Value the people in your
life to shape you and you
shape them.
Our genes are social and
based on connection.

The stronger our connections
the more we build a natural
confidence in self.

26:43
IF YOU ACCOMPLISH
GOALS BASED
OFF YOUR FEARS
Then you are only a greater
manifestation of that fear.
You may feel good for
a moment, but your life
will training the muscle of
fear and you will not learn
the true strength of man.

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